Wednesday, 28 March 2018

Declutter redifined

Declutter .
Ever come across this word?
Well, most of our Mothers scorn at children , complaining about this single word.
Let me explain. Declutter is to wipe away unwanted things and stuffs that mess a particular place.
Now, you might have probably understood and remember how your mother scold's you to clean your room.
Mother takes care of almost all the household chores and thus she persuades us to declutter the mess at home. This is a common incident.
But have you ever thought about decluttering your thoughts in the brain???
Our brain is actually magnetic since it takes in and generate whatever you think, feel and do. Though it can recognize the positive and negative aspects ,it delivers the thought instantly without any filtration.
That is, in today's generation human mind is forgetting to declutter. We dump our brain with all the thoughts and feelings leaving no space for the brain to think
.We dwell upon our past, we intake negative feelings and finally a few part of the population fail to take positive side of the thoughts, thus ending their life.
Suicide is the biggest negative thought that peeks if we constantly fail to declutter and become pessimist.
Your mother pushes you to declutter the room. Who pushes you to declutter your mind??? It's you. Because it's your life,
You are responsible to manage your thoughts and feelings. Go on declutter!!!  
If not your room, Atleast  your mind. 

Wednesday, 7 February 2018

Emily: The epitome of love and sacrifice

                    " Wingless Angel "
    Movies related to current issues has never failed to make an impact on the audience' mind. Especially south Indian movies take a backseat when it comes to expressing the bitter reality in society, since commercial movies has always been on top of the list. One such striking the chord Tamil movie is Aruvi. The ignition of the flick is slowly reducing, but I could not wait to jot down about the magic that it gave me. It was only last week that I decided to watch Aruvi. That day afternoon I had a sound sleep as usual and when midnight came in, I was in the bed doing nothing (not even yawning).When I was done with surfing Facebook, I switched to my gallery to simply admire my selfies. It was then I got to see the movie that my brother uploaded later that evening. When I told one of my besties about the night show that am gonna watch he warned me "your gonna go through a tearful night" and I remember another best friend suggesting " watch out for the emotional climax". So, everybody has watched it. I ve not watched a single episode of Game of thrones or Friends that my friends suggested at least lemme try this. (well I sound more like a conformist.)
                It was 2 at midnight, when the movie was nearing to interval. I thought to close it and get to sleep but something inside me said " finish it off" and I continued. Now all this buzz is about one character that made me laugh, cry and love all the same time: Emily. At first sight I judged that she's gonna use our protagonist as a bait for a huge trap or push her into some deep shit, because that's how we basically guess about sudden entry of certain roles. But few minutes later I mentally smacked my head for the wrong judgement. The Track 'anbana vaartha solla' narrates her character, the way she loves her friend, taking care of her, enjoying life of a girl amidst all the cruelties in the outside world, more than that ,redefining friendship. Her slang, silvery voice and gestures makes you fall in love with her. She has no fear to express her feelings, because she is bold and beautiful moreover she owns the fearless thought that no one can question her because "tomorrow" may never happen to her. She breaks all the myths that the society created about trans genders. She literally becomes thick and thin to Aruvi, being a helping hand in all ways possible. She never minds to clean her friend who does everything on bed
- Feed, clean her dirty cot, bath her or sacrificing sleep, Emily is ready to offer her own life. I sensed warm tears rolling down my cheeks and making my blankets wet. How can a friend dare to do all this. Of course we have our friends tagging in memes, sharing food and standing by our side at any cost but do any one go to the extremes to help his/her friend. I had to ask this myself. Emily has got all the traits more than a woman would possess. Each and every scene which cast Emily made me crave for such a fantastic trans gender friend. Wish I could have one such person! And close to the climax all my friends' words rang on my head. I was crying like I was one among that peculiar gang who reunites to spend last few moments with the dying Aruvi. when I closed the gallery I am sitting there visualising all the scenes - Aruvi, Aids, existential crisis, selfish people, consumerist world and amidst all Emily with Angelic wings!!!

Declutter redifined

Declutter . Ever come across this word? Well, most of our Mothers scorn at children , complaining about this single word. Let me exp...